Have you ever found yourself talking about X when your customers/employees/friends wanted to hear Y?
We all have.
So when I was asked to speak on a webinar to a group of entrepreneurs about the value of joining the National Speakers Association and how it changed/launched/defined my business I said sure.
Waiting for the call to start, while some technical difficulties were being sorted out, I tossed out a question to those who had logged on early…..”Why did you sign up for this webinar?”
And it was clear……….what they signed up for and I what I was about to talk about were not the same. A sudden momentary sinking feeling went through my body. The call organizer was nowhere to be found – she was having the technical difficulties. How am I going to keep these people engaged? I just got fed to the sharks. Or in this case a group of (mostly) women who were about to hang me out by my……..
They were looking for tips/strategies/ideas on making presentations more powerful; I was getting ready to address building a speaking business. Screw the EASY button; where’s the PANIC button!!!!
I started talking about what I was asked to deliver. While I was talking I was watching the chat and Q&A windows. They did not want to hear what I had to say. It’s happening…….DISENGAGEMENT! I didn’t even dare look at the attendee count to see if it was dropping. Talk about an ego deflater.
They wanted tips and strategies. Now I have trained myself to not read emails/chats/facebook posts with any slant. So although I know the questions were coming from a place of learning; I kept reading them as “hey stupid, this is not what we want to hear” and imagining people booing and shouting at me.
So now not only am I talking into a piece of crystal and looking at a picture of myself, my gut is telling me STOP! ABORT! ABORT!
And so I did.
And with the permission of my host I changed the focus completely to marketing strategies and presentation techniques that I use.
And here’s what I learned and offer to you:
In the end all was good, and several of the attendees reached out to me and thanked me for the information that I offered. But it just reminded me once again the importance of businesses, employees, leaders needing to be flexible when it comes to a customer experience.